My secrets for dating a married man
My secrets for dating a married man - Adult mobi
It's harder when I think something is going on while we're both in town.The more I think about it, the less okay I am with our lifestyle, so I've become pretty good at shutting down that part of my brain.
And little by little, we reached the point we're at now, where both of us occasionally have affairs on the side but always come home to each other.It wasn't great — I really would have rather been at home with my son, and I felt I was punishing myself for my husband's behavior during my pregnancy.I liked my coworker, but I know I pushed us into romantic territory fast because I wanted to feel desired. I ended my affair, and for the next six months or so, my husband and I recommitted to our marriage and our family.Normally, the guys I have affairs with are men I meet through my job — I travel a lot — as an event coordinator, at parties, through friends of friends, or even old flames I've reconnected with on Facebook.I've always been the type of person who gets physical fast, and being married hasn't changed that.It's a Wednesday night, and my boyfriend and I are drinking wine and making out in the back booth of a dimly lit bar. I spend half a second staring at the diamond on my engagement ring before hiding my hand from my sight line.
The kids are in bed," I say, then put my phone in my purse and pull my boyfriend toward me.I was pretty sure Dave was sleeping with someone else while I was stuck at home.Before, I felt we could both have our cake and eat it, too, but the last thing I wanted to do when I was pregnant was seek out an affair.He'll send texts, but I'm not obligated to respond.I text him if I won't be coming home (which, truthfully, happens very rarely since we've had kids), and I always have safe sex.It's not a secret that I'm married, but it's also not something I want to think about right now. But I'm certain our don't-ask-don't-tell rule is what has allowed our marriage to last as long as it has.